Sunday, 8 November 2015

Respecting Girls

Respect Girls, they say...To this, following questions are natural! "Why shall I ?","How do they deserve it ?" and so on...
Well, The word "respect" has two meanings:-
1.A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements
2. Due regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others.
And what you are supposed to do with girls is the latter one!

In our society, there are many cases where girls are treated like furniture! You may say they must be illiterate people but sad truth is that even educated people do so! Society is becoming more and more disrespectful to girls and I think this is something we should really think about seriously! There are many ways through which it happens! And it is possible to stop it with thinking upon one simple thought "You don't have right to disrespect anyone's sister, mother or wife just because she is not your sister, mother or wife !" If you think it is okay to do so, remember there can be another man who is thinking same about yours! I am sorry if it sounded harsh...

One thing I want to make clear to guys who think themselves as Romeo is "When girls say 'NO', she means it"! Why don't you guys understand? Let it be! Accept the fact and move on! Before respecting her right, respect yourself enough and forget her" Same thing goes for the girls too! I'm not on the side of people who say "Girls are always right", it is a stupid statement to make! That is not equality at all!

And for people who don't want to have girl children:“And when one of them is informed of [the birth of] a female, his face becomes dark, and he suppresses grief. He hides from the people because of the ill of which he has been informed. Should he keep it in humiliation or bury it in the ground? Unquestionably, evil is what they decide”.(Quran, 16:58-59).
Daughters are a matter of pride not shame!
 Prophet Muhammed said “He, who brought up two girls properly till they grew up, he and I would come (together) (very closely) on the Day of Resurrection, and he interlaced his fingers (for explaining the point of nearness between him and that person)” In early Arabia, people used to bury their girl children !

Sexism existed since the beginning of times but that does not mean we can't stop it! Pledge to make a difference! And girls too, respect guys because it is age old tradition "Give Respect and Take Respect" haha

Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p

Wednesday, 4 November 2015

Communal Politics -_-

Never wanted to write the kind of blog I am writing now! But before conditions worsen, I thought that I must! People may say that my age is not suitable for this stuff...No matter how young I am, I can sense what is happening in my country!

Since some days, intolerance in India seems to be on the rise, thanks to the dirty politicians!
If a person can be killed for the kind of food he eats, how can you that any "Acche Din" has arrived?! Well, I don't want to get into that debate...there are many other issues too but the point I want to make is why some parties want to divide the nation into the terms of religion?

 I mean, come on religion is something which is between a person and his creator! It is person's own choice to have any religion! You cannot deny this fundamental right of an Indian!
And this is extremely sad how politicians are spewing hatred among citizens through their venomous speeches and even sadder to see people follow them not knowing that politicians do these things for their own benefit! They don't really care about you!

To be honest, I'm really afraid of my country! If these cheap people can try to defame big star like Dr.Shah Rukh Khan, then how can be the normal people be safe? They termed him as "Traitor" for being honest!

Hindus, Muslims, Christians, Sikhs, everyone has fought tooth and nail against British to free India from slavery! And now you easily say "Leave our country","Go to Pakistan"! Who the hell are you to say anything and how dare you? I'm extremely frustrated when someone needs to prove your patriotism just because he/she is a Muslim ! Where did you get this logic from? Can't you just accept the fact that we all are a part of a country and we must stay with each other peacefully? Muslims contributed for freedom struggle too! Just because you don't know about it, you can't deny it!
Maulana Abul Kalam Azad, Ashfaqullah Khan, Razia Sultana, Tipu Sultan, Hyder Ali, Dr, Zakir Hussain, Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan, Alama Iqbal are just a few names which came across my mind!
No Muslim can betray his country! Love for one's country is one of the requirements of the Islam!

I'm sorry but I really hate these dirty politicians who term respectable members of society as "Pakistani Agent"! If there really are any agents, then they must be those themselves because they are always busy in promoting Pakistani Tourism!

Before they question my patriotism, let me put the whole pledge over here!
 India is my country.
All Indians, are my brothers and sisters.
I love my country and, I am proud of its rich and varied heritage.
I shall always strive to be worthy of it.
I shall give respect to my parents, teachers and all elders, and be courteous to all.
I promise to be loyal to my Countrymen.
For in their prosperity lies my happiness.

Satisfied ?
                                                                  One request to you readers, whatever religion you belong to, please love and respect all other fellow Indians! I do the same! :-)

Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p

Sunday, 1 November 2015

Feelings (Part-2)

Sorry for the long break.
So, we were talking about feelings...

They are many kinds of people in this world.Let us talk about the ones who belong to my group(kinda).
These people are usually very very sweet and caring.They care for everyone.And when people they care about don't do the same, they get hurt.Sometimes, very very much! You won't find such people everywhere...If you have them, take care of them!

Feelings are always precious.You can't take your words back, so better to be careful.Just because you don't like anyone, you can't hurt them.Take care of people's feelings.Don't hurt anyone without a cause.Don't look down upon anyone.
Well, I know there are some people who don't deserve this kindness.They never think before saying anything to you!They try to be as mean and as nasty they can! Try to be polite with them too if you can but yes rudeness with them is justified :P point of view ;)

This topic is huge,think we may need some more parts :P

Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p