Affan Syed

Well, the word in the title was never this famous as it is now ! We have been listening it everywhere these days ! Let me tell you what Intolerance or  असहनशीलता   actually means ! It means " unwillingness to accept views, beliefs, or behavior that differ from one's own"  Sounds familiar,right ? In India, we have been debating non-stop that is there Intolerance on rise or not but no one is working on it !  The following incidents made "INTOLERANCE" the most talked word : http://www.youthkiawaaz.com/2015/12/instances-of-intolerance-in-india-in-2015/ When  'Dadri Lynching Case' happened, some people said "Intolerance in India is on rise" and I opposed them saying "This is an extremely unfortunate event but you can't blame whole country just because of a little bunch of hooligans"... Was I wrong ? No, I still stand by it but I would say a huge bunch of hooligans now. Sorry but I must say that Shiv Sena/BJP activists are wo...

Respect Girls, they say...To this, following questions are natural! "Why shall I ?","How do they deserve it ?" and so on... Well, The word "respect" has two meanings:- 1.A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements 2. Due regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others. And what you are supposed to do with girls is the latter one! In our society, there are many cases where girls are treated like furniture! You may say they must be illiterate people but sad truth is that even educated people do so! Society is becoming more and more disrespectful to girls and I think this is something we should really think about seriously! There are many ways through which it happens! And it is possible to stop it with thinking upon one simple thought "You don't have right to disrespect anyone's sister, mother or wife just because she is not your sister, mother or wife !" If you t...

Never wanted to write the kind of blog I am writing now! But before conditions worsen, I thought that I must! People may say that my age is not suitable for this stuff...No matter how young I am, I can sense what is happening in my country! Since some days, intolerance in India seems to be on the rise, thanks to the dirty politicians! If a person can be killed for the kind of food he eats, how can you that any "Acche Din" has arrived?! Well, I don't want to get into that debate...there are many other issues too but the point I want to make is why some parties want to divide the nation into the terms of religion?  I mean, come on religion is something which is between a person and his creator! It is person's own choice to have any religion! You cannot deny this fundamental right of an Indian! And this is extremely sad how politicians are spewing hatred among citizens through their venomous speeches and even sadder to see people follow them not knowing that polit...

Sorry for the long break. So, we were talking about feelings... They are many kinds of people in this world.Let us talk about the ones who belong to my group(kinda). These people are usually very very sweet and caring.They care for everyone.And when people they care about don't do the same, they get hurt.Sometimes, very very much! You won't find such people everywhere...If you have them, take care of them! Feelings are always precious.You can't take your words back, so better to be careful.Just because you don't like anyone, you can't hurt them.Take care of people's feelings.Don't hurt anyone without a cause.Don't look down upon anyone. Well, I know there are some people who don't deserve this kindness.They never think before saying anything to you!They try to be as mean and as nasty they can! Try to be polite with them too if you can but yes rudeness with them is justified :P Yes.my point of view ;) This topic is huge,think we may need som...

Children...I love them and as the matter of fact I remember my childhood when I see cute children :P *wink* Innocence is an essence of their sweetness! But yes...we are not able to see innocence in children nowadays the way we used to have! I have many memories from my childhood! I remember many things which people won't expect me to! I can recall incidents of the time when I was just a year old! Okay okay...let us not get diverted from the topic! "Child is the father of Man"...yes, is! children !We should take many fewer children! 1) When children fight with each other, long time it does a long time for them to reunite ! > What if we follow this and have our issues solved quickly without letting ego come in between ? 2) They make sand castles,and destroy them too ! > They are giving us a reminder that life on the earth is not permanent ! Everything came here to be destroyed ! 3) When they need something,t hey will just get it 1 They have "Kisi bhi...

Feelings...it is something which makes human beings different from animals! Feelings vary from person to person.Some people are of happy nature, they smile, laugh and joke.Some people are grumpy, they get angry over little things.......and some are quiet, they feel bad, they get sad, upset but their feelings may not appear on their faces...now, these ones are dangerous! They may smile and talk with you whereas they are planning your murder in their head, ha ha! People hurt feelings many times and sometimes they don't even have a clue that they are hurting someone! Will continue this sometime later because it is 12:36 am here and I need to sleep :P                                                     And for this blogger keeps on nagging me to write in Hindi all the time,                 ...

This is the probably first serious blog written by me... Before reading this note it that this blog is written by an average teenager... Recently,I heard about an incident occurred in our neighboring country which made me cry... A girl and a boy of 10th grade committed suicide because they thought their families wont understand their "love" ! They even wrote suicide notes to their families in which they wrote goodbye message and ended it with "Love u mama & papa"....you mean really ? Come on ! How sad is it that so called 'love' of few years took over the love of parents who have given birth to you !!! The very ones who raised you !!! The very ones who taught you to talk,walk,laugh,smile,everything !!! How do this all started ? Movies and Novels,right ? Guys,have we all lost all our senses ? Don't we know that Novels and Movies are written down,so every event is as writer desires ! We can't live our life in a filmy way because we aren...

Dear Haters, Raise your standards for mine are high! Try to love yourself because if you love yourself, you will lose interest in me! Read biographies of famous people because I bet you will find their lives lot more interesting than mine. And you please don't worry about the frequency of mine being on social media or wasting time anywhere else because I promise that won't hurt you anyway! Concentrate on your work rather than wasting your time on me, I guess it will do good for you ! You make me think I'm the best person on the Earth because I know your views can never be right! And look,I' m neither any celebrity nor any person of high regard, so please stop all that "research" on me! And remember this, you 'll never see me frown, so give up! I was born smiling ;) P.S. You ain't my mum, you don't need to tell me what I do and what not :P                                       ...

Sick of being how you are? Or even if you aren't, should ?don't you should? *Let us change for better! *No! Don't overburden yourself but also don't underestimate! *Every month, consider over 3 habits you need to change...*Listen to motivational lectures and read good books. *Don't say anyone about the change, not even to yourself.Just shed off bad habits and embrace good ones! *Be just, good and kind to people around. *Lower your eyes. *Ask for forgiveness from people you may have hurt (both intentionally and unintentionally) and seek forgiveness from God for the sins you commit. (Say Astagfirullah) *Never underestimate God.He forgives no matter how bad you are. *Be sincere. Happy Changing ;)                                                                                 ...

My blogs are special....why? 'Coz they don't come with weeks of preparation. 'Coz they don't follow any particular rule. 'Coz I write directly from my heart. 'Coz I don't gather all info from here and there and put it under my name. 'Coz they are quite relatable. And... Because I write them :P                                                                                 Keep reading Affanish Blogs! :) Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p

Forgive and forget,they say... Do you really think it is that easy ? No! It is not... When you stand in the shoes in victim,you will know it...Else,advicing is favourite hobby for most of the people,now-a-days! Before you say "Forgive him/her,why are you making it an issue",just imagine yourself in that situation... Okay,forgiving is somehow,we can do it but forgetting...impossible for me! I cannot forget anything...especially things which hurt me! "But yes,I am killing all this negativity because I am on my way to become a Better and Happier person ! " And if I may,I will advise you to do the same ! 'Coz maine new funda apnaya hai "Haters don"t deserve your attention"                                                                                         ...

APJ Abdul Kalam was ex-president of India.He was a great Scientist, popularly known as "Missile Man Of India" for inventing Agni, Trishul etc... Well, this seems to be a lesson of your English Textbook, ha ha! He was not only a president and scientist who did so much for INDIA but he is also an example, an inspiration... Born in 1931 in the streets of Rameshwaram, APJ lead a poor life but didn't give up his dreams... He used to study sitting beside brahmin kids and was often invited for meals at his brahmin Teacher's home which he readily accepted...Such was his upbringing, very secular!And we need to learn many lessons from his life! He worked very hard to earn bread for his family...he even used to sell newspapers. "Don't stop working hard after your first victory.It is the time more lips are ready to say that your first victory was mere 'luck' " is one among his innumerable quotes. He even wrote many books like "Wings Of Fire...

There are some people who just does not fit to be on the Earth (exactly feeling your emotions ). I agree, this what we feel.It is okay.It is natural. There are some people who are just....unable to explain.... But yeah, this the world where you have to live....deal with it... After all its "Dunya" and not "Jannah"! Subhanallah!The powerful sentence I have read somewhere... Forgive them...if not for them..but for your own sake! I know "Forgiving is a little bit easy but forgetting is not"....but move on! Best Of Luck!

There are some times in your life when people just forget their limits and start speaking anything...there you have nothing to say but "Please Shut Up !" And there are also the times when you cant even say that.You should just sit quiet and listen up...that's tough! I say whenever there are such moments stay quiet, gulp in your anger...it will help! But no matter how nice you try to be there are certain times, certain people which annoys so much that you can't stay quite, and in some cases, you could not even make it work with "Shut Up!"....you strongly want to use all the #$%^#@& words !haha BUT understand that staying quiet is better.Yes, if there is some sort of explanation you want to give or you think you can make that person quiet...then go ahead...a little sense of humour comes handy in case you need to answer nonsense questions! Kuch bhi karo...soch samajh kar karo Yes, guys! Cant write much...Exam Time... See You! Edit: I may have ...

It may seem funny that I'm repeatedly saying I'm different from others but one of the reasons I started blogging is to let the world know how different I am and how it feels to be. Ummm...so you will have to bear this !*lol* I study people's behaviours.(It happens automatically, even if I don't want to)And it is very normal for me...I study almost everyone's behaviours...As of now, my brain consists of hundreds of different behaviours ..lol ! I do use this,t hat's why I hardly get disappointed over people.I know how everyone is,how they think! ok ok . I know I am getting boring  now.! So, Adios! See you then. Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p

Found this article in a book.Check out what it says: interpersonal intelligence: I Like To: Seeing things from others point of view in order to understand how they think or feel.You are a good organiser and manage to get other people to cooperate & work as a team. I Am Good At: Seeing things from others view,listening, understanding people’s moods and feeling.Solving problems, cooperating with groups, noticing people’s moods,communicating, building trust. I Can Become: Counsellor, salesman, politician, Businessman, teacher. Well, I am an Interpersonal Intelligent...But do you think I should get professional with this ability? Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p

In 15 years of my life, I have realised that no one could ever understand me though I understand everyone... In 15 years of my life, I have realised that no matter how much good you do, life, life, one bad thing is enough to make people forget your good deeds... In 15 years life, how ?I have realised that people will say you lot of things and expect you to keep quiet...I mean In 15 years of my life, I have realised that people will only see bad qualities in you and let go good ones with so much ease! In 15 years life, I have realised that you should just keep in mind that whatever you are gonna do, make no expectations....its all up to people to like it or not, life, life, appreciate it or not... In 15 years life, I have realised that you will have to suffer for an image you created no matter how long ago and even this does not matter that how changed you are now! In 15 years life, I have realised that just because you are honest, you will have to f...

I don't interact with people too much that they get annoyed, I always keep in mind not to lose my value....and even if someone gets annoyed by me and I get to know it....it would be the last day of mine in their lives! I am really very different from all the people around me, even if I may not seem to be! "Not to be irritating" is the formula I follow and want everyone to do the same... No, I don't get irritated by frequent interactions I just get irritated when there is a negativity in the interaction, about me... And if anyone finds me irritating, don't hesitate to let me know.Now here a good person will stop being so and be careful next time but in my case, it is not so....I just quit their lives and they won't see me again!                   After reading this you will say "But a good person should not be like this !" Yes, that's what worries me......I should not be like this..but what can I do ?....I'm like this (though not ...

Asalamualaikum! I am Affan Syed,15 years old. Hobbies are to read, blogging !write books and of course the blogging! new one I'm writing the blogs to let world know what I think (though I can't express it fully-at least a part of it) Okay...I think I'm a guy with a different thinking from everyone else. I did not found any person who thinks exactly like I do... I thank Allah for some of my abilities...like I do understand many people's behaviour etc and also my abilty to solve people's emotional problems(this is probably coz I treat ppl's probs as mine and maintain 100 •/• pri vacy) No,I'm not boasting about anything... *Love India* Affan Syed Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p