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Respecting Girls

Respect Girls, they say...To this, following questions are natural! "Why shall I ?","How do they deserve it ?" and so on...
Well, The word "respect" has two meanings:-
1.A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements
2. Due regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others.
And what you are supposed to do with girls is the latter one!

In our society, there are many cases where girls are treated like furniture! You may say they must be illiterate people but sad truth is that even educated people do so! Society is becoming more and more disrespectful to girls and I think this is something we should really think about seriously! There are many ways through which it happens! And it is possible to stop it with thinking upon one simple thought "You don't have right to disrespect anyone's sister, mother or wife just because she is not your sister, mother or wife !" If you think it is okay to do so, remember there can be another man who is thinking same about yours! I am sorry if it sounded harsh...

One thing I want to make clear to guys who think themselves as Romeo is "When girls say 'NO', she means it"! Why don't you guys understand? Let it be! Accept the fact and move on! Before respecting her right, respect yourself enough and forget her" Same thing goes for the girls too! I'm not on the side of people who say "Girls are always right", it is a stupid statement to make! That is not equality at all!

And for people who don't want to have girl children:“And when one of them is informed of [the birth of] a female, his face becomes dark, and he suppresses grief. He hides from the people because of the ill of which he has been informed. Should he keep it in humiliation or bury it in the ground? Unquestionably, evil is what they decide”.(Quran, 16:58-59).
Daughters are a matter of pride not shame!
 Prophet Muhammed said “He, who brought up two girls properly till they grew up, he and I would come (together) (very closely) on the Day of Resurrection, and he interlaced his fingers (for explaining the point of nearness between him and that person)” In early Arabia, people used to bury their girl children !

Sexism existed since the beginning of times but that does not mean we can't stop it! Pledge to make a difference! And girls too, respect guys because it is age old tradition "Give Respect and Take Respect" haha
                                                                                                                          Love,
                                                                                                                                 A.S.

Edit: I may have said things in this blog I wouldn't agree now or maybe the way I said it is too childish, so keep in mind that this is an old blog. I'm not deleting it because blogs are my first online appearance as a writer :p

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